1.Be mindful of his emotional needs
First acknowledge that every man has needs; both emotional and physical.
When these needs aren't met, men seek to fulfill them by all means
possible . It may be a need for respect, affection, happiness, or
intimacy that leads a man to cheat. It could be something that he never
even mentions.
Boyfriends and husbands stray when they don't feel fulfilled, so to keep
your man faithful you just have to keep his emotional needs in mind.
2. Stay affectionate
Men needs to be reminded every once in a while how much you love them.
Tell him that you care every day (like you mean it). Make sure you
communicate affection through your actions as well as your words. Just
don't let anger or frustration get the best of you. Relationship stress
can take a serious toll on couples, so you and your partner may grow
distant, but that shouldn't stop you from cuddling and saying "I love
you" often. However challenging life gets, never withhold affection.
Your man could start seeking it elsewhere!
3 Respect Him
It's easy to boss men around or talk to them like they're children.
After all, quite a few of them have a serious maturity issues. It's easy
to lose respect and get mean rather than work to solve issues. There is
no excuse to treat him like a 4-year-old. When he messes up big-time,
try concentrating on why you love him.
4. Give Him Space
Every man needs time to enjoy his hobbies, hang out with friends, and do
his own thing – whatever that may be. If you're around your boyfriend
or husband during all of your free time, he will feel smothered. You
might even annoy him so much that he considers bailing. Don't let
jealousy or insecurity get in the way of a successful relationship. Give
the man some time to himself! This tip is actually a two-for-one bonus
because you'll have the opportunity to spend time on yourself too. If
you spent all of your free time finding love (a.k.a. dating) before your
current relationship, that's fine, but now it's time to find a hobby.
You could try writing, kick-boxing, photography, traveling, or theater.
Great don't you think so?
5. Keep Him on His Toes
Leave him little notes, sexy messages, and surprise him every so often.
Once your routine becomes boring, your man may start looking for "spice"
with another woman. However, if you keep things interesting at home,
he'll have no reason to stray. Keep him entertained! Besides the small
things you can do, why not try new things together? It doesn't matter
whether you take a dance class, start a book club, or go to the cinema .
Just make sure you both feel alive and happy together. Even a timeshare
meeting could be an interesting experience at the right place and time.
6. Challenge Him Mentally and otherwise Men thrive on the thrill of the
chase. When men finally get something they've been after for a long
time, it makes them feel accomplished. That's because all their hard
work has finally paid off. To tease him without actually being a
"tease", consider your man's wildest fantasy. Then fulfill it – but only
if you're OK with it and only once or twice a year. No matter how much
he begs and pleads, don't give in. His dirty thoughts will always be on
you. And even better, you'll find him wanting to return the favor.
7. Take Care of Yourself
While dating, people tend to groom themselves much better than they do
five years into the relationship. It might because of work, stress,
laziness, or knowing that their partner will love them no matter how
unkempt they look. Whatever the reason, women often stop shaving as
much, keeping their breath fresh all the time, doing their hair, and
dressing up like they did at first – and that's understandable. It's a
lot of work! Nonetheless, while you don't need to look amazing every
day, try to do what you can whenever you find time. Pretty hair and
smooth legs go a long way. And looking good will make you feel good
about yourself.
8. Learn About Your Boyfriends Before You Get Serious
Ask them about their views on unfaithfulness and see if they have a
history of cheating. If your gut tells you any man is being dishonest,
keep a close lookout for signs of cheating. Women's intuition is nothing
to ignore. Some men just aren't mature enough to stay faithful. Certain
ones will never be the loyal type, no matter how long you wait for them
to grow emotionally. You could be the most beautiful, rich, hilarious
woman to walk the planet, and these men would still cheat on you. You
could be the most endowed lady in the world and men will still cheat on
you. Guard your heart so you don't end up offering it to the wrong guy.
9. Call a Psychic for a Psychic Love Reading
Every man has his own communication style and unique needs. Whether you
just met a wonderful guy or you've been married for over a decade, a
psychic can help you solve troubles in your relationship. A psychic can
also help you keep your man faithful. You might even be able to bring a
cheater back to monogamy! Psychic insight works wonders for
relationships. Maybe you'll find out about your partner's secret
desires; then you can fulfill them on occasion. Perhaps you'll learn how
you can communicate more effectively as a couple. There could be quite a
few good surprises in store for you.
Whatever your psychic sees during your call, the experience should help
you improve your relationship. Finding love is hard and time-consuming.
Fortunately, consulting a psychic can make it easier to hold onto the
love you've found.
10.0 AKE Him Your Hero — so
Most men don't cheat because they don't
love you anymore. Men cheat because they want more variety in their relationship with you.
Some complain of being bored. They want to feel adored by their
partners. They want to asert their freedom. They are tired of
disappointing you.
They want a partner who places them at the center of their life, and they no longer feel like the priority in yours.
Sometimes it's because you are speaking different love languages, and
some men say it is a biological directive to procreate with as many
women as possible for survival of the species.
Whatever the reason, men have an innate need to feel respected and
appreciated by their partners. It is most disconcerting for a man to
realize he has disappointed his partner in some way. He wants to be her
hero.
11. Be willing to initiate
Men equate sex with desirability. Help your man to feel desired by expressing your love in a physical way.
12. Be open to experimentation.
It can be easy to get comfortable and fear of the unknown can stop you from being open to different styles.
Allow your man to try new things with you. If you won't, there will be
someone else who will. I'm not saying to engage in activities you find
repulsive but allow yourself to experience new things with the man you
love.
14. Don't over-accomodate.
Sometimes in a relationship, a woman can become too accommodating.
Men get into relationships with a very clear picture of what a lifetime
partner looks like and this is often in stark contrast to whom he may
have dated casually. Women work to become the person their partner wants
them to be and in doing so, they lose themselves. One day, their man
realizes this is what he asked for but he isn't sure it's what he really
wants.
Maintain a healthy sense of self in your relationship.
15. Don't become too controlling. Men like myself don't like to be controlled it burns us out.
Often without realizing it, when we get into relationships we attempt to control the other person to do what works best for us.
We engage in destructive relationship habits such as complaining,
blaming, criticizing, nagging, threatening, punishing and bribing or
rewarding to control.
16. Be aware of your emotions.
Whether or not we are aware of it, women are masters at using their
emotions to communicate volumes without speaking any words. We
communicate anger, rage, sadness and disappointment that is received by
our partners.
Instead of taking that as a cue to do something different, some men
begin to look for another partner who idolizes them the way you used to.
Don't forget, your man wants to know he lights you up not that he is
constantly disappointing you.
17. Prioritize your relationship.
Often, when a man cheats, you will find the woman is also having an "affair" that's not sexual. It's more socially appropriate.
This "affair" takes the form of prioritizing something, anything, over
the relationship. This could be a job, children, a sick relative, a
charity or anything that puts her man lower on her totem pole than the
first position.
Prioritize your relationship over everything else. It's your man over
every other thing first. The same way you love to be put first on your
partner's scale of preference, same rule applies. This is the
relationship you want to last for all your life. Other things will fade
away and the relationship will still be there if you tend to it
carefully.
18. Learn his love language.
If you are not familiar with Dr. Gary Chapman's The Five Love Languages ,
please read it. It has the potential to save more marriages than
marriage counseling has. Learn your man's love language and speak it to
him regularly. He will know he is loved and remain true to you.
19. Find his relationship pattern.
I do not know how to combat the biology argument. Some men simply
believe it is hard wired into their genes to have sexual relations with
as many women as they can. If this is your man, it probably won't matter
what you do. Try to recognize these men early on by asking about their
dating history.
If this is a pattern with your man, he probably isn't likely to change
just because you love him best. Your best defense against this problem
is to be discriminating at the onset.
If you have read this article and wonder, what about him? What does he need to do?
20. Never Take him for Granted
One of the easiest ways to lose your guy is to take him for granted . If
you don’t want to lose your guy make sure he knows how much he means to
you . Though guys can act independent and show less emotion than women ,
they do actually need just as much caring and love. Appreciate and
support him no matter what,
instead of nagging and insulting him for things he cannot do. Never try to change him, love him simply for who and what he is.
21.Be a Loyal Friend and a Faithful Partner:
A couple who shares a good relationship as friends will maintain a
stronger romantic relationship . It is important to be a good friend as
well as an understanding romantic partner . Share things with your
partner when you have a personal problem or if you sense an issue in
your relationship. This will make him feel that he is important in your
life and help him understand that you are a faithful partner. Learn to
see your guy as your best friend and as well as your boyfriend.
22.Have a Good Sense of Humor:
Men usually find a woman with a great sense of humor very attractive.
This doesn’t mean you have to act overly silly or keep telling jokes
though. The key is to learn how to have a positive attitude in spite of
any problems and understand the value humor and fun. The ability to
laugh off life’s little problems and see things in a positive light is
what men look for in a woman.
23.Last but certainly not least:
Continue to learn new things and improve upon the person you are . Doing
so will ensure that he always finds you attractive and irresistible.
Everyone has their own personal priorities, interests and hobbies, and
your relationship should not interfere in these things, it should enrich
it.
Give him space and allow him to be himself and
you will find that keeping your boyfriend forever madly in love with you
is not as complicated as you think. Goodluck in your quest to find
fulfilment in love
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